Forgive me if I'm wrong, but aren't they still pretty similar (in that they sound like misnomers?)
Relations ~= Consensus (traditional full-featured Paxos)
To use your sentence
If you use NOPaxos, the consensus doesn't disappear. You just have to perform it whenever your sequencer, or replica-leader becomes unreachable/fails.
The "OUM primitive" addition isn't much more than two monotonically increasing integers (session and order-number) which depend on a central (bottleneck) sequencer... NoSQL moved the responsibility for relation-management up, NoPaxos is moving the responsibility for consensus down/to the worst case... My point was that neither are fundamentally different from the "X" after the "NO"...