Other Ruby implementations suffer from not being compatible with the MRI ecosystem, you have to port them over. In theory because they're the same language, gems would be easily portable, but the sheer amount of combinatorial work involved means they slowly accrete into separate ecosystems. It's relatively easy to port a gem over and maintain it, but if you don't keep doing it, they'll become incompatible.
MRI has the largest install base, and the biggest gem library, and the largest number of eyes on it. Sure, JRuby and Rubinius are faster, but Ruby was never a language chosen for speed, so most devs reach for MRI first and then only branch out when requirements force them out.
For me, the differences between MRI and other implementations effectively make them different languages, I'd jump to Elixir before giving JRuby a shot. I have a sense that other Rubies, except maybe Opal, will always be niche.