People aren't stupid just because they don't drop everything and make one specific goal their highest priority above all else. Many people haven't even thought about that goal, and even for those who have, it may not even objectively be the highest priority goal.
In a world where no party is proposing reforms that will actually do enough, I feel like I basically have a responsibility to vote for the most environmentally conscious not-totally-insane option.
Conservatives promise to dig up the country.
Lib dead promise to dig up the country, slowly.
Labour promise to dig up the country, for the people.
And the greens promise not to dig up the country, but will make us all live in grass huts.
They aren't stupid, they are selfish. At the end of the day it comes down to what's called Tragedy of the Commons: individuals keep doing things they know are bad for the environment because our economic system prioritizes the exploitation of natural resources (which is a zero-sum game by definition) and if they don't exploit it, someone else will. Therefore, everyone continues to do it. That is why we need top-down (read: government) regulation.
I'm happy to pay higher prices for meat, higher prices for airline flights. I'm happy in general to ration out personal luxuries more thinly than I already do. I really do want to avoid the end of the world.
But at the same time, I want some damned personal security in exchange, and right now I'm not getting any of it. We don't have much personal security if something bad happens in life, and the world is ending anyway.
Carbon tax or bust.
And what would replace these things? Would they not create another catastrophic problem in another area?
What is the magic bullet that fixes all the world's problems??
Now lets talk about all the volcanoes that are underwater... then we can talk about solar weather and more...
But even with what you list, external factors based on other people still happen, like your work wants you to fly somewhere, or public transport sucks because everyone else is still driving.
I disagree that we feel like the exception when we're acting like everyone else. We feel like the exception when we're trying to be better and others aren't.