== Consolidated advice ==
- Don't use Iris because shady-thievery-mischief
- Learning is costly: If you have to learn a lot to get into fullstack dev, learning a new language will compound that cost
- Just pick whatever and f'n build something - artists build
Backend:
1. Node.js
2. RoR in second
3. Spring Boot/Play
4. Phoenix
Database:
1. Postgres
Frontend:
1. React
2. Backbone
Thanks all for the advice and avoiding the temptation to completely slam me (though it's warranted).
My takeaways are:
1. Don't forget about SSL, and LetsEncrypt provides a free option (will donate eventually)
2. Amazon Lightsail looks promising but be wary of any service that will not automatically cap usage once you've hit your spending threshold (apparently Google CC too, but not Digital Ocean)
3. I know there are .NET developers on here but they're a vocal minority (I work on a Windows/Ubuntu machine so it's within my reach but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯)
Thanks again, all! See you on the webbz.
P.S. I'm working on my first chrome extension (frontend only) and might follow-up asking for advice on that.