But some of what you say in it is ludicrous on its face:
I can go to a public restroom without fear of physical assault.
Really? You must live some place special where no crime occurs in such venues.
I can apply for a job without having my application thrown out on account of my name.
But your race, sex or sexual orientation? Haven't you noticed you're at a disadvantage here more and more? I mean, this was the theme of an episode of Archie Bunker which aired in the 1970s, the iconic scene was "Meathead" slamming a door so hard it broke the glass in it, very memorable.
Moving on:
On the other hand, if you claim special rights by virtue of skin color, gender, or religion
You're claiming a full on assault is "[t]he loss of a privileged position"; I guess at best we'll just have to agree to disagree, since it appears that simply asking for equal rights in the identity politics game, heck, even being allowed to play it, is beyond the pale for you, puts me in the basket of deplorables. But correct me if I'm wrong about that summation of your position.