Are you using 5.1.x? It had a ton of performance improvements over 5.0.x and earlier.
I regularly run 30-40 VMs at once on my dev server at work (40 cpus, 384gb ram), and I haven't had any problems like this there or at home...
I regularly run 30-40 VMs at once on my dev server at work (40 cpus, 384gb ram), and I haven't had any problems like this there or at home...