Personal anecdote: I have a retinal scar from an eye infection that was a direct result of wearing contacts. The $2K I spent on LASIK in my early twenties was the best money I've ever spent.
I did a good amount of research and came to the conclusion that the expected value of LASIK outweighed that of contacts over a lifetime. To simplify things a bit, you are trading a one-time risk of a serious post-surgery complication for a risk of a contact-caused eye infection spread out over the remaining years of your life.
What's the risk with glasses? Losing/breaking them?
Sleeping in contacts is also a big no-no.
Wouldn't be surprised if there's a decent amount of anecdata that people don't really adhere to the guidelines.