Right, none of those have led to obsolescence even with long periods of time to grow.
Instead, think of replacements that have caused something to basically just disappear.
I'm not convinced this is the best example, but I think it helps get my point across. This is from a user's perspective, not a manufacturer's. Maybe someone can share better examples from software if these aren't appropriate.
When a new type of cable connector enters the market, it has to be at least as simple as the old one or do something more than the old one did. Serial or parallel plugs have screws to help hold the cable in place, newer plug types like FireWire or USB don't need the screws, so they are simpler. Now we are seeing new types of plugs that work "upside down" so they are even simpler for consumers to use.
I guess a better example might be media distribution. From a user's perspective, the compact cassette was just as simple to use as the 8-track. Or BluRay replacing DVD replacing CD.
Would high speed internet be as popular if it required a time consuming arcane ritual to establish a connection, compared to the simple bleep bloop of a dial-up modem?
So if you want the users of BGP (network operators) to switch to something better, make it just as simple for them to use, while providing additional benefits. Yeah it isn't easy, but it's certainly been done in other arenas.