Tips for Successful Self-Learning
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We shy away from challenging, intimidating tasks on a psychological level by nature. Fighting through this is one of the few things that keeps us moving forward. If you're unmotivated to learn something but you really "should", I suggest you find a way to become motivated.
Consider a person who both wants to be a doctor, because they admire the direct nature of a doctors work, but they don't enjoy people themselves. And, also wants to be an engineer because they find it all more interesting and valuable, but they never particularly liked math. Depending on the person one choice will be more desirable and will be easier to learn motivation for.
The internet has made it easier, but it's not the same. When I socialize with friends, they don't care to talk about programming. In fact, they make fun of me.
Or at least branch out and find additional friends who enjoy discussing programming. Local user groups are a good place to start.
I think there may be a selection effect where many of those who are really hardcore are too busy doing to socialize. Besides that, it can be hard to communicate with others about programming because there is so much disagreement about how to do it "right". (Not that there isn't also agreement.)
I'm going against my nature and meeting with a friend weekly to review queries for a SQL class we're both taking. Just talking with him and catching each other's mistakes has been worth as much as my O'Reilly book.
back when i was in school and onwards in the academic world, it was always said aloud that the quicker you grasp, the intelligent you were. A lot of students(i perceive - even now) were in rush to prove that they understood - many a times getting to the end of the book before understanding the basics. The momentary appalaud of "well said" and "hurray!" turned out to be a disease - a disease of skimming thru and finding the answers. This got into an habbit and now well embedded in my approach to even outside books. 20 years (outside school) and still counting on the skimming the book[most recently, I picked up a Math book (Intro to Analysis- as suggested Brad's earlier post)]. Struggling thru is a small part of the battle; mind plays the depression game while I try to search for a notation (the greek for complement of a set), while I don't give in as I used to, nowadays it plays the second game of age-"35 years and you don't know 'xyz'!". So yes, my the shortest path has been so long that I have not been able to put an end to it. </end-self-humiliation>
"avoid isolation"
would anyone suggest how to get by this? I work in the enterprise world, where the likes are 9-5/fix-the-bug-save-my-arse. I haven't met anyone whom I could ask about a notation or even discuss about this. I am shy to meet people (read- fearful).few people I did try to ask usually have the repulsive smirky grin. I looked for user groups in the local area (seattle-at present), but didn't find any. It would be awesome if someone tells me this proof of A-intersection-B-intersection-C is going to help in XYZ.
would anyone suggest how to get by this?
http://mathoverflow.net/There is a whole book--which is very readable but should not be rushed through--about why learners think this way.
http://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Success-Carol-Dweck...
Here is a shorter article about the underlying research on this kind of self-defeating thinking, and what to do about it:
http://www.stanfordalumni.org/news/magazine/2007/marapr/feat...
Many people in office jobs are like this. Brute force search till you find helpful and intelligent people who are not insecure and might actually be fun. You never need to turn to the jerks after that!
Even if uninterested in a degree, attending a class helps keep motivation and meet peers.
Personally, I feel that if you don't have an intuition for something you don't quite understand it -- it's still a a jumble of memorized knowledge.
Separately, I've started to realize the term "self-learning" is a pet peeve of mine. You can't teach someone; you can present, and they can learn. It's like having a word like "self-exercise" -- a coach/teacher can only show you what to do, not do it for you. In this case, "self-learning" means learning in the absence of a structured environment/coach, and the goal is to find or create your own.
This is an increasingly murky notion to me re: the web.
At any other time in history [1] sitting alone in your room reading something would have been a solitary task without question. There was a social component insofar as you were interacting with an author, but since that's one-way communication (read-only medium) it was still clearly distinct from social activities.
Fast forward to now when the thing your reading and writing is near-instantaneous updates to/from other reader-writers like you and this phenomenon is looking sufficiently different from traditional at-home reading as to defy most meaningful distinctions between introverted and extroverted activity. "But that's only text, you're not talking to people and seeing them like in real life." C'mon, I'm in an ambient Skype call with my girlfriend right now. We leave the thing on for hours at a time - yes, it's a way to cope with long-distance but also interesting because of how similar it really is to hanging out in the same room. "But you still can't feel or taste each other." No rebuttal... (and I'm still waiting on that Linux driver for my smell-o-vision).
[1] Although it's so easy to think that your moment in history is unique. There are at least definite parallels between what's happening now with the web and past revolutions in publishing and communications, including the printing press, telephone, radio and television.
See some research done by Richard Felder at NC State on different styles:
http://www4.ncsu.edu/unity/lockers/users/f/felder/public/ILS...
Find out what your style is:
http://www.engr.ncsu.edu/learningstyles/ilsweb.html
Effects of learning style in the context of engineering education:
http://www4.ncsu.edu/unity/lockers/users/f/felder/public/Pap...
By understanding the basics, it gives you the ability to understand the rest so much easier.
You can also easily seek help from others because they know you've taken the time to understand the basic and aren't searching for a quick-and-dirty answer to your problem.
It also help to motivate yourself since you know that even thought you haven't mastered everything, you've mastered something and that's really important. It's a bit like building a small system incrementally.. even if it sucks, the first version gives a huge momentum to the overall project.