I'd really like to understand your worldview better (and I don't mean that in a belligerent way) because I hope I can learn from it.
I really cannot muster any level of compassion for this guy. Sure he's poor, but he committed a planned, systematic, manipulative and horrible crime that can destroy the lives of very vulnerable people.
Just look at the current top comment in the thread for a personal experience of it. Somebody is systematically emptying that woman's retirement savings. This is not like a hungry person stealing some food or a bit of cash, people have their entire lives / retirements ruined by this stuff. I find it easier to have compassion for a pickpocket in the street than somebody like this.
And yes, I believe he really is playing the long con. I'm all for trying to understand people who have wronged us, and forgiving them too. But there is no way I could imagine giving money to somebody who had tried to pull something like that on me.
I'm not denigrating your way of looking at things. You are possibly a happier and less angry person than me. I just can't bring myself to agree.