Really? The American myth of self-reliance and independent determination doesn't mesh with being driven around by a robot. The person who buys an diesel f150 or a Shelby Mustang isn't the sort of person who likes being driven around by other people, let alone by a cellphone app. The American myth is the lone cowboy on the horse, not the rich man in the stage coach.
Cars are not rational decisions. If they were, we would all drive gray electric minivans. Cars are a means of expression. They are class identifiers. They are thrill machines. They are weapons. They are Freudian. I'll be convinced about autodrives in the US when I see ONE autodrive car take ONE spectator to a nascar event. It won't happen in my lifetime.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/8339097.stm
"In his paper Hazards of Horse-riding as a Popular Sport, Dr Silver cited a study from 1985 that suggested motorcyclists suffered a serious accident once every 7,000 hours but a horse rider could expect a serious incident once in every 350 hours. [...] The majority of people admitted to hospital in such circumstances are women. "
Also, girls engage in equestrian sports, I'm sure that non-sports horse activities are probably safer.
You also bring up the F150 and Shelby - I drive a Nissan Frontier ( D40, Navara ) mainly because I get truck-function and it sits lower and doesn't corner-dive like an F150. You can't confuse it with a Shelby but it's plenty of ... "hoss". The only way I'd have either instead of the compromise is that I had a rolling stock fetish (and was appropriately resourced to feed it ) and was collecting them.
I've seen what the F150 is really used for. It's a work truck in its bones.
Also also - Larry McMurtry tied the cowboy myth back to, of all things, some variation on Le Morte d'Arthur. That's not particularly American :)
Indeed, it feels hard like a hard message to convey on these boards: some people (me) enjoy the act of driving a car. And almost every reasonably wealthy culture seems to like watching other people do it competitively.
Wouldn't you use a teleporter?
Also, food for thought: http://existentialcomics.com/comic/1
The only way to win the "brutal commute" game is not to play.
In practice, many of the cities with the highest housing costs are now strongly anti-infrastructure and anti-transport anytime it involves cars. (What good is a self-driving car if it's getting stuck in the same-or-larger traffic jam everyday?). Cities like this problem because it adds to the inflation of their own property values, and they get to pretend they are being "greener" or "safer" (even though self-driving EV cars eliminate the majority of those issues).
So I suspect that in practice, self-driving cars won't lower housing costs much in most major markets. It could help smaller cities, but they already struggle less with housing costs in the first place.
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The biggest changes will probably be felt elsewhere. Such as by professional drivers (school/city bus drivers, truck drivers, taxi/uber, etc). I also suspect some spill over against flights. It might soon be cheaper for a family of four to rent a self-driving Chevy Bolt to drive from ORD to MSP or ORD to ATL, than to fly there. Especially since, once you land in MSP/ATL, you'll need a car to get around anyway.
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Wealthy people will continue to be mostly unaffected, as they can already afford to live where they work, and can already choose to have no meaningful commute, anytime they desire to.
These cities would still be better off with SAE Level 4/5 and inter-communicating cars, which should reduce the frequency of traffic jams significantly. Traffic jams are almost ALWAYS caused by human error at some point in the chain.
Sometimes, sure. But there are a lot of key areas where urban roads / freeways are simply past usable capacity (even with smarter self-driving cars communicating together).
Most major cities have experienced significant population growth in the last 10 years, and have also built little-to-no new freeways or additional car capacity in the last 10 years. If I had to guess at the future, I would predict both of those trends to continue.
As cool as it may sound to be able to work in your car during your commute, it's even cooler to work from home and have no commute at all. If my corporate overlords won't countenance the latter, they almost certainly won't allow the former.