Hacker News Reader

Comment by thomasville | Hacker News Reader

Is there a way from preventing certain contacts from knowing I'm on Signal? Like, it is embarrassing that Jason from college knows I'm on Signal. I know you guys will disagree and say it is not embarrassing, but it seems that a privacy-focused app would respect this notion. Obviously being a member of certain apps (grindr) can be seen as negative. I think I should be able to Whitelist my contacts.

View on HN

This is a feature I would like not only in Signal, but also in platforms like Telegram and Wire. There are several valid reasons not to announce one's presence on a messaging platform to everyone who somehow has your phone number or address.

Telegram allows using a username to mask sharing the phone number with new contacts, but its initial setup is based on the phone number and it insists on notifying everyone who has your number that you've joined the platform. Messaging platforms would be much better if they considered such things as privacy issues and provided more control in the user's hands, with sensible defaults and good initial setup instructions.

I don't disagree with your general point, but I'm curious, why would having a privacy-focused app be embarassing? I'm curious what kind of attitude you have for it, or what you expect some of your contacts to think of it.

Because it makes me look like a drug dealer. Which is to say it is easy for me to guess why most the people in my contacts who use Signal, use Signal. Some are journalists. Some are tech researchers. The guys with bad jobs who aren't good at computers make me wonder...

Sounds like the image we should move away from, so it gets better for everyone. While I don't disagree with your previous point, I think part of the reason for OWS to do this might be to nudge people like you towards this being mainstream, instead of okay, so why is this guy using this?

Many of my contacts use Signal because some computery person that wants to talk to them kept telling them to use it. They're not techy themselves, but it's not suspicious at all in my opinion.

Reply on news.ycombinator.com