Here's the other side of the coin, as someone who's worked primarily with npm (JS), composer (PHP), had a taste of cargo (rust) and of course yum, apt-get, etc.: packages are awesome. npm is weird and hellish because people write single-function packages, but that isn't the case in other ecosystems. NuGet provides an easy and familiar way for me to get into it, as opposed to having to absorb the entire ecosystem at once.

I agree though, that the challenge is different in a compiled language (from JS/PHP), and when dependencies get specific you might be out of luck (when .NET Core was announced I had a hard time following Microsoft's own tutorial because minor revision was different between two key packages)