Study Explains Why We Arrest Moms for Putting Kids in Nearly Non-Existent Danger
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The leading cause of death in children in the United States is by car accident[0]. So if my youngest son is asleep in his crib and I need to leave to grab groceries from the store a mile away, I have to wake him up, strap him into his placebo seat[1], and put his life into statistically far, far greater danger than the risk of him somehow suffocating in his empty crib or dying in a house fire. Not to mention the added stress on both him and me that arises from waking a toddler prematurely--stresses that result in shaken baby syndrome and the third leading cause of death in his age group.
[0] https://www.cdc.gov/injury/wisqars/pdf/leading_causes_of_inj...
[1] https://www.ted.com/talks/steven_levitt_on_child_carseats
He flat out admits that his only sources of his "research" are 1) the DoT NHTSA's FARS [0] and 2) four crash tests that were run by an anonymous test center.
I can't think of a better example of a red herring argument. He's basically saying, "Don't bother second guessing my data because I have these videos from a person who will NOT collaborate the results."
The FARS data is heavily biased as well. First, it only reports _accidents with fatalities_. It's a completely voluntary survey, it's up to state and local governments to enforce their police jurisdictions to comply. At the time of the video it spanned 30 years of data, 1975-2005. There's incredible amounts car safety improvements in that time frame. I'll defer to an expert here, but air bags and crumble zones will top that lists; I'm sure there have been improvements to seat belts and car seats in that time. Point being, most of that data is irrelevant.
And, then his ego shines through when he glorifies economists superiority over "scientists" because economists "look at real world data"; if his opening wasn't awkward wretch inducing already, then that surely should have done it.
If you want to be an advocate for Mr. Levitt's ideas proceeding for actual scientific inquiry, have at it. But, don't spread a cockamamie pejorative, like "placebo seat", because you watched a terrible TED talk.
I can't help, but feel my response was overkill for having taken offense from two words. I attempted to find some follow up studies based on Levitt's TED talk, but as it should be to nobody's surprise, neither side seems to have taken it seriously (to progress nor retort). The only source that I found which I actually liked is called "What If These TED Talks Were Horribly Wrong?" [1]. In which, Levitt gets top billing, and there is link to a study called "Effectiveness of Child Safety Seats vs Seat Belts in Reducing Risk for Death in Children in Passenger Vehicle Crashes" [2]; it's freely available, but I have yet to read it.
[0] U.S. Department of Transportation, National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, Fatality Analysis Report System, http://www.nhtsa.gov/FARS
[1] https://theawl.com/what-if-these-ted-talks-were-horribly-uns...
[2] http://archpedi.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=20506...
Relevant ancient educational tiny story: https://riddlesbrainteasers.com/three-philosophers-tree/
I got an epiphany moment about that story when I read a story about a medical doctor visiting a "quack" conference. There was one "esoteric" who complained about the others being "esoteric" (he practiced something else than the others, but still something weird), and the doctor looking down on them all. But the crowning part of that story was that the doctor herself held a believe by now proven to be wrong by studies. So they were all laughing about each other, in addition to the original three-philosopher problem this anecdote included a hierarchy (I am better than you), going over several levels, and it turned out the person who thought was at the top looking down on everybody else actually wasn't and should have had a good look in the mirror herself.
The hint should have been seeing that one guy lamenting that all the others were esoteric, but introspection based up on what we see in others isn't many people's string suit. No, (only) they are "stupid".
The philosophers in the little ancient Greek story/riddle managed to get to the truth by including themselves into their logical reasoning and not just think about the others. When you come to a conclusion about other people, always consider if/how it applies to yourself.
The more modern saying is that about throwing stones in a glass house... but it lacks the educational value of the three philosopher problem because it's only the "TL;DT" (too long, didn't think).
Quacks aren't stupid because what they believe isn't true, but because they believe it without sufficient evidence, or, often enough, despite evidence to the contrary.
Not to mention that your reply is the pinnacle of hypocrisy and stupidity. "Even when I'm wrong I'm better wrong than you!" How incredibly stupid.
Relevant ancient educational tiny story: https://riddlesbrainteasers.com/three-philosophers-tree/
I got an epiphany moment about that story when I read a story about a medical doctor visiting a "quack" conference. There was one "esoteric" who complained about the others being "esoteric" (he practiced something else than the others, but still something weird), and the doctor looking down on them all. But the crowning part of that story was that the doctor herself held a believe by now proven to be wrong by studies. So they were all laughing about each other, in addition to the original three-philosopher problem this anecdote included a hierarchy (I am better than you), going over several levels, and it turned out the person who thought was at the top looking down on everybody else actually wasn't and should have had a good look in the mirror herself.
The hint should have been seeing that one guy lamenting that all the others were esoteric, but introspection based up on what we see in others isn't many people's string suit. No, (only) they are "stupid".
The philosophers in the little ancient Greek story/riddle managed to get to the truth by including themselves into their logical reasoning and not just think about the others. When you come to a conclusion about other people, always consider if/how it applies to yourself.
The more modern saying is that about throwing stones in a glass house... but it lacks the educational value of the three philosopher problem because it's only the "TL;DT" (too long, didn't think).
Relevant ancient educational tiny story: https://riddlesbrainteasers.com/three-philosophers-tree/
I got an epiphany moment about that story when I read a story about a medical doctor visiting a "quack" conference. There was one "esoteric" who complained about the others being "esoteric" (he practiced something else than the others, but still something weird), and the doctor looking down on them all. But the crowning part of that story was that the doctor herself held a believe by now proven to be wrong by studies. So they were all laughing about each other, in addition to the original three-philosopher problem this anecdote included a hierarchy (I am better than you), going over several levels, and it turned out the person who thought was at the top looking down on everybody else actually wasn't and should have had a good look in the mirror herself.
The hint should have been seeing that one guy lamenting that all the others were esoteric, but introspection based up on what we see in others isn't many people's string suit. No, (only) they are "stupid".
The philosophers in the little ancient Greek story/riddle managed to get to the truth by including themselves into their logical reasoning and not just think about the others. When you come to a conclusion about other people, always consider if/how it applies to yourself. The more modern saying is that about throwing stones in a glass house... but it lacks the educational value of the three philosopher problem because it's only the "TL;DT" (too long, didn't think).
He addresses that criticism directly in the video by saying that there are another 45,000+ incidences of real-world crash data that have been analyzed.
> "Effectiveness of Child Safety Seats vs Seat Belts in Reducing Risk for Death in Children in Passenger Vehicle Crashes" [2]; it's freely available, but I have yet to read it.
Well, if you did read it(you don't even have to read it, just look at the easy-to-read tables), you would see that their data results match exactly with what Levitt is saying -- there is not real difference! However, their conclusion is different, because they have an additional variable, which is that they determine if that car seat was "seriously misused".
I have to admit, I never heard this before and it is hard to believe, given that conventional wisdom says that child seats are safer, however, the data does seem to back up what he is saying.
It really sounds to me like you are the one that is falling victim to exactly what he is claiming, "It must be right, because that is what everyone believes--plus it is kids!"
You do know that instead of knee-jerk criticizing someone for believing what an economist says, you can go through his data, show where his methods, data, or conclusion is wrong and help everyone! (... and be famous in the process)
Further, Table 1 says that seat belts had a non-fatal rate of 99.89% and restraint systems had a non-fatal rate of 99.88%.
Hell, they flat-out say that they had to adjust it to get those numbers:
"Table 2 summarizes little difference in the unadjusted risk for death between users of child restraint systems and users of seat belts (RR, 1.03; 95% confidence interval, 0.72-1.46). After adjusting for seating position, vehicle type, model year, driver and passenger ages, and driver survival status, children in child restraint systems had a 21% reduction in risk for death compared with children in seat belts, although this difference was only marginally significant (RR, 0.79; 95% confidence interval, 0.59-1.05). After excluding the cases of serious child restraint system and seat belt misuse from FARS, children in child restraint systems had a 28% reduction in risk for death compared with children in seat belts (RR, 0.72; 95% confidence interval, 0.54-0.97)."
It seems that they are trying to get to that conclusion.
Um, no, I'm afraid.
Table 1 describes the characteristics of the data set. 99.89% of the "seat belt" sample were non-fatal accidents and 0.11% were fatal; that and the row immediately above it sum to 100%. A fatal accident is defined as one in which someone died, including a pedestrian.
You will note that they say:
"Within FARS, we identified 7813 children aged 2 through 6 years who were vehicle occupants restrained in a child restraint system or a seat belt in a nondrivable passenger car, van, pickup truck, or sport-utility vehicle that was involved in a crash with at least 1 passenger fatality between 1998 and 2003. Of these 7813 children involved in fatal crashes, 1096 children (14%) were killed."
You will then note that in Table 1 for "Overall" the Fatal rate is 1096 (identical to the number of children, the 14% above, that were killed).
You will also note that if you add together the FARS and NASS CDS numbers you will get 9246, which is the total number of children aget 2-6 from both and also the sum of 1096 and 8150 from the "Overall" column on Table 1.
now that I think about it, it doesn't even matter. If the same relative rates are fatal and non-fatal (separately) that still says that they are practically equivalent.
Also, it says so in the paper...
I don't want to change the goal posts here, but death isn't the only thing these booster seats protect against. A properly used booster seat reduces the relative risk of non-fatal injury by more than half[1]. That is also extremely compelling to me.
[1]: http://jama.jamanetwork.com/mobile/article.aspx?articleid=19...
However, the parent commenter used that single study (that seems to have an ax to grind with Levitt) as proof against Levitt's claim.
And it does not appear so cut-and-dry to me.
"Results Compared with seat belts, child restraints, when not seriously misused (eg, unattached restraint, child restraint system harness not used, 2 children restrained with 1 seat belt) were associated with a 28% reduction in risk for death (relative risk, 0.72; 95% confidence interval, 0.54-0.97) in children aged 2 through 6 years after adjusting for seating position, vehicle type, model year, driver and passenger ages, and driver survival status. When including cases of serious misuse, the effectiveness estimate was slightly lower (21%) (relative risk, 0.79; 95% confidence interval, 0.59-1.05)."
Table 1 says that seat belts had a non-fatal rate of 99.89% and restraint systems had a non-fatal rate of 99.88%.
They flat-out say that they had to adjust it to get those numbers:
"Table 2 summarizes little difference in the unadjusted risk for death between users of child restraint systems and users of seat belts (RR, 1.03; 95% confidence interval, 0.72-1.46). After adjusting for seating position, vehicle type, model year, driver and passenger ages, and driver survival status, children in child restraint systems had a 21% reduction in risk for death compared with children in seat belts, although this difference was only marginally significant (RR, 0.79; 95% confidence interval, 0.59-1.05). After excluding the cases of serious child restraint system and seat belt misuse from FARS, children in child restraint systems had a 28% reduction in risk for death compared with children in seat belts (RR, 0.72; 95% confidence interval, 0.54-0.97)."
If you read further down in their conclusions, they seem to have a real hard-on over Levitt. I am not saying that they are wrong, but the data (un-modified) supports Levitt's conclusion.
"In a more recent series of analyses, Levitt4 and Dubner and Levitt11 used FARS data from 1975 to 2003 and, by various methods, directly compared the mortality with child restraint systems vs seat belts in children aged 2 to 6 years and could not demonstrate a difference in effectiveness. Levitt and Porter12 restricted the FARS data set to 2-vehicle crashes in which someone in the other vehicle (ie, the vehicle without the index child occupant) died, under the assumption that the distribution of restraint use among children in potentially fatal crashes is independent of whether someone in the other vehicle dies, after adjusting for various crash-related characteristics.
"The precision of these previous effectiveness estimates and their relevance to today's fleet were limited by their reliance on FARS (the limits of which were presented in the introduction), by the inclusion of older vehicles and restraints, and by failing to control for the severity (potential unsurvivability) of the crashes. Our analysis based on a modern cohort of children involved in crashes in which the car was rendered undrivable addressed many of the limitations of these previous analyses and found effectiveness estimates for child restraint systems to be greater than that for seat belts alone, with estimates greater than those of both Levitt4 and Hertz.6"
Levitt, et al, used only FARS data, which only records fatal accidents. A hypothetical accident where only the child would have died but that was prevented by the restraints would therefore not show up in the data, leading to the value of the restraints being under reported.
Further, failing to control for the severity of the accident (which this work does using the survival of the driver) also undervalues restraints: if the car ends up as a ball the size of a grapefruit, it doesn't matter what restraints were used.
> Levitt, et al, used only FARS data, which only records fatal accidents. A hypothetical accident where only the child would have died but that was prevented by the restraints would therefore not show up in the data, leading to the value of the restraints being under reported.
This is the same regarding any type of restraints, including seat belts, no?
Also, you should realized that all of their extrapolated data is also hypothetical, and relies on spotty reporting from police.
Please note, that I am not convinced that Levitt has it right, just that he is not incorrect regarding the data.
What I see is that child seats are being DOT approved much as if car crash data only had to exist for one vendor selected model for one configuration of passengers and then cars with similar mass distribution were deemed inherently safe for any configuration. Thus, there is nothing in the approval to indicate that whatever approved car seat you buy achieves a safety purpose.
I don't really care if Levitt can prove that they are on average less safe. The point that they will have a random distribution between better and worse than nothing for their only purpose is why they are a fraudulent industry that can't be mandated by legislation. I would rather parents that don't care to do research buy nothing than buy the cheapest or prettiest or most adjustable fine avoidance mechanism. Forcing uninformed purchases furthers the average level of safety fraud, pushing the market to converge towards less safety.
The chosen system lets DOT look important as they raise that minimum bar to exclude the loopholes used by the very cheapest seats while fighting industry lobbying.. It is like they are looking for a new batch of deaths from encouraging a market for extremely dangerous products to be important again.
You talk about his ego, and say the video is terrible, and the data it's based on is biased, and also criticize him for being awkward. (Hey, I'm awkward. Careful.)
Most of these seem like personal attacks, was that the intent?
On the merits, I leaned far more towards his position when I heard Ray LaHood's response, which boiled down to, "I don't have the luxury of looking at data, because I'm a grandparent."
You said it was egotistical for Levitt to claim he looks at data, but his main opposition literally decries bothering to look at data, that's not a straw man.
If our transportation agency can't be bothered to ascertain whether something is a placebo or not before mandating it, I see no reason to treat it as somehow sacred and beyond pejorative.
Nope. You didn't watch it to the end, did ya? From the transcript: "In my data, and in another data set I've looked at for New Jersey crashes, I find very small differences in injury. So in this data, it's statistically insignificant differences in injury between car seats and lap-and-shoulder belts. In the New Jersey data, which is different, because it's not just fatal crashes, but all crashes in New Jersey that are reported, it turns out that there is a 10 percent difference in injuries, but generally they're the minor injuries."
> The FARS data is heavily biased as well. First, it only reports _accidents with fatalities_.
The NJ data reports injuries, too.
> At the time of the video it spanned 30 years of data, 1975-2005. There's incredible amounts car safety improvements in that time frame.
That point was addressed, by analysing more recent subsets of the data. From the transcript: "And the other thing you might argue is, 'Well, car seats have got a lot better over time. And so if we look at recent crashes -- the whole data set is almost 30 years' worth of data -- you won't see it in the recent crashes. The new car seats are far, far better.' But indeed, in recent crashes the lap-and-shoulder seatbelts, actually, are doing even better than the car seats
> The only source that I found which I actually liked is called "What If These TED Talks Were Horribly Wrong?"
Skepticism sells. Hate to be the one who appeals to authority, but I have more faith in a data scientist (with a PhD and published articles and all that jazz) doing analysis, than a meta-analysis by a journalist whose main achievement is writing plays, and whose main aim is create controversy for clicks.
Mom leaves child at home to shop; evil music plays; kid looks like he might get into trouble; nothing happens and everyone smiles at the end with some statistics on how it's pretty safe.
INT. HOME - DAY
A MOTHER is getting ready to leave the house. Her
TODDLER is sitting in his playpen.
MOTHER
(Warmly)
I’ll just be gone for a few minutes, buddy!
TODDLER
(Pleased, without understanding)
Gah!
The door slams and a nosy NEIGHBOR appears immediately
outside the window. Seeing the unattended TODDLER, the
NEIGHBOR gasps, and calls 911.
NEIGHBOR
Hello? Yes, a woman has just left her baby
unattended!
Two police officers appear. OFFICER #1 arrests the
NEIGHBOR. The MOTHER, returned, holds the TODDLER as
both watch the NEIGHBOR’s arrest. Before getting into
the cruiser, the NEIGHBOR turns to OFFICER #2.
NEIGHBOR
(Weeping)
But...why?
OFFICER #2
(With visible lack of sympathy)
You’ve caused more trouble today than you
could statistically have prevented.When I was growing up in the 90's and took the bus to school, parents just dropped off the kids on the corner and parents go about the day. Now when I drive by school bus stops, I see a line of cars parked on the side of the road. Both parents and kids sitting in the car till the bus comes.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stranger_danger#Criticism
> The concept has been criticized for ignoring the fact that most child abductions and harm result not from strangers, but rather from someone the child knows.
Also a lost in sense of community. As the study shows, if you know the reasoning for why the mother left the kid in the car, people are less likely to judge the situation as dangerous.
If you all knew your neighbors, and you see someone's kid running around, you'll know why that kid is by themselves and probably less likely to called Child Services.
One of my coworkers had child services called on him. His son's school let out early. His son forgot his keys that day, so he climbed through an open window through the 2nd floor. Neighbor saw this...called Child Services.
When families live in areas where they naturally commingle they tend to be interested in the welfare of others around them. I think that's why it's more of an issue in the physically isolating suburbs.
It's the same reason a new mom won't eat cheese or fish for the entirety of her pregnancy.
For a small price (inconvenience), they avert assuage that fear.
Secondly, social pressure.
While it's entirely unlikely your child will be kidnapped at a playground if left unattended, it's extremely likely someone will call the cops if they see an unattended little kid.
In large swaths of suburbia, people almost never walk anywhere. When they want to "go outside" they take a car to the park. The result is that the concept of "waiting on a sidewalk for the bus" is so foreign they don't even consider it an option. Let alone "walking to the bus stop".
There are a few places where street life still exists – mostly really large cities and really small & old ones.
It's a tragedy how the convenience of taking a car right to the front door of some megastore has gutted city life. Shopping used to mean a walk down Main St. with more, smaller owner-operated stores and a high probability of meeting someone and stopping for some coffee. But that took longer, and you needed to live close by (=smaller houses/properties). And sometimes it rained, and those shop were more expensive, and we decided a worthy human being is in the office 46h/week.
(not that those aren't legitimate reasons. It's more a matter of taste, and most people apparently don't share mine).
It isn't something stupid about how inconceivable walking is or how foreign the idea of "standing outside" is. That's just you insulting a group of people that I presume you don't like.
I think if we're going to see this end, we need institutional change; we need the police to be able to see a situation and tell off the person calling them for being stupid. As long as there's an extremely good chance CPS will take your kid away because some asshat called the cops for something stupid, we parents can not afford to act otherwise.
Your comment reminded me of Taleb's "The Most Intolerant Wins." https://medium.com/@nntaleb/the-most-intolerant-wins-the-dic...
Re-reading the article his idea of 're-normalizing' explains what is happening here with our society's view towards unattended children. It's different than the explanation from the parent study, but seems complementary not contradictory.
In addition though, I think a contributing factor is cars, cars , cars everywhere. Having grown up in East Germany, I would be much more concerned about letting my kids (if I had any) roam around in the exact same area where I grew up in very freely. The roads are much more dangerous now for inattentive playing children. And as a local issue, a vastly increased number of ticks in the forests around my childhood home, but as I said, that's just a local issue.
The reason is that the majority political philosophy in the US has shifted from libertarianism/classical liberalism to progressivism. The libertarian point of view is that people generally should be free to go about their own business in the manner they see fit. The progressive point of view is that we have a collective responsibility to police the wrongdoing of other people and fix it, using state power if necessary.
In the video where the guy goes off at the mother for leaving her kid in the car, you can see the progressive power dynamic in play immediately. The guy thinks she's doing something wrong so he gets involved. (Who is he? Doesn't matter. It's everyone's job to right wrongs.) It takes maybe 15 seconds before someone mentions the police, because the only way such intrusive activism works is when a higher power (can be state, law, society, science, God, whatever) is used to identify and enforce a definition of what's right. Even though the activist doesn't explicitly threaten to call the cops, during the confrontation they are mentioned constantly because the threat of state power is the only reason the mother even has to give this guy the time of day.
If you want to go a level deeper and ask why this political shift has occurred, it's likely that one contributing factor is urbanization which been underway in the US for some time--historically densely populated cities tend to be more authoritarian than rural areas because a crazy person can do more damage in a dense city (you don't see mass shootings happening in cornfields).
He was saying America has become more progressive because of urbanization, not that urbanization directly caused the intense scrutiny on child rearing.
However I am left in want about what makes the US different than other places with regard to child rearing, even though I largely agree with the points above (though I might include authoritarianism with progressivism).
From the paternalistic insanity of authoritarian collectivism.
edit: it almost seems to speak to a LOSS of collectivism in the US, when people lived in small communities that all shared the same values
Collectivism is the philosophy that a central set of practices and behaviors be enforced across a group, placing the group's will (often via force-backed punishment) over individual beliefs and choices. That's quite a bit different that a close-knit community that features voluntary interaction for mutual benefit.
The latter form of true community is great, but in the US we're gravitating more and more toward forcing views about safety, security, and social behavior on others through criminalization of once ordinary personal choices.
Mom A doesn't just send the kids to the bus stop, she stands there with them. So mom B also begins standing. Then mom A starts meeting them at the bus in the afternoons....
There's no end to it. Parents say and do the "right" things because they are better parents -- or at least the optics looks like they are. So other parents are forced to follow suit. Given enough of this insanity, the next logical step is to start using the criminal justice system to enforce what being a good parent is.
The internet and social media are just making this worse, btw.
Of course, LIC is full of well off yuppies, so perhaps the demographics are the reason.
[1] http://www.art.net/studios/hackers/hopkins/Don/text/rms-vs-d...
This is a much broader issue. America is simply developing a very dysfunctional way of dealing with children. America is the only developed country I know of (maybe only country period) where police is routinely used to deal with school discipline issues. Even parents in the US call police to discipline their kids for silly stuff like drinking alcohol. I am actually surprised by how normal this is in the US even among intelligent and seemingly normal families.
With the extensive killing of blacks it is clear that the US has a general police dysfunction. The police is seen as a solution to almost every issue in society.
America needs a serious re-evaluation of what role police and punishment should play in society. Police and the justice system can't become a substitute for parents and teachers.
From my own subjective anecdata living on the East Coast, police are rarely involved in school discipline unless someone has been very seriously assaulted. Parents I've seen also tend to be very protective of their children and apologetic for their actions, usually not wanting them to be subject even to basic discipline like detention or suspension, let alone arrest. Overparenting is rampant, but parenting-by-police seems rare.
As for shooting of blacks, there is not currently any conclusive evidence that it is or isn't caused by racist policing or biased officers. A few highly publicized cases of police brutality, mixed with even more heavily publicized cases of ambiguous police response (were they really being attacked? / did they really see what looked like a gun?), don't necessarily indicate a pervasive trend.
Studies to the contrary include this Harvard one (conducted by a black, liberal professor, if it matters) which even the New York Times doesn't challenge: http://www.nytimes.com/2016/07/12/upshot/surprising-new-evid...
This 2008 analysis is also interesting, albeit it from a somewhat conservative (yet respected) source: http://www.city-journal.org/html/criminal-justice-system-rac...
(Note that these only argue against disproprotionate number of shootings, not racial profiling or bias.)
If you overspecify caution and requirements for the cop, you'll end up in a situation we are quite arguably already starting to see in some places, where it becomes impossible to be an effective police force at all, and crime starts going up very quickly [1]. And now even more people are dead, as well as communities, and hope for the future, and all the other things like that. And this almost instantly turns out to be even worse than anything the cops ever did; we go from once-every-few-years news stories about police in a given city shooting a guy in dubious circumstances (that often, a couple of weeks later, turn out to be fairly justified, but that news story doesn't get around anything like the first one did) to "yup, another day of 10 more murders than we had per day last year". Hardly strikes me as a win.
[1]: http://www.csmonitor.com/USA/Justice/2016/0402/Chicago-viole... - and I should point out to many of you that while you politically filter that story, please note everyone involved is a Democrat.
Here's an example. New York City has 35,000 uniformed officers. In a given year, they have ~100 incidents involving use of firearms. So even over a 30 year period ("a career"), only a smaller portion of the force will have cause to discharge their weapon (multiple 10,000s of officers over 30 years, ballpark 5,000 incidents, so a single 10,000 ballpark of involved officers).
http://www.nyc.gov/html/nypd/downloads/pdf/analysis_and_plan...
To be clear, that includes all incidents, so if they shoot a dog or whatever, that's in there.
It was a shock to see it happen in slow motion from the opposite side of the world over the next three decades, the country just seemed like a frog being slowly boiled without it being aware.
From time to time people ask me why I don't move back and I just smile and say that this is my home now. Few people would understand the sadness I feel for those left behind.
Ironic.
I think you're drastically exaggerating. The opposite is true. In my opinion parents very rarely call the police to discipline their own children, particularly for things like alcohol. The police are also very rarely involved in school discipline, unless it involves higher level violence or weapons. Of the N instances of discipline problems at a school, a sub 1% number of those would involve calls to the police. In an average American high school with 1,000 students, there are going to be at least a dozen instances per day of discipline problems with students, the police are not getting called that often.
Police are so involved in school discipline that it has its own name -- School to prison pipeline.
He didn't make the statement you are claiming he made.
He rarely did anything, but he was there full time. I got the impression it was mostly drug enforcement. Some kids got busted with dumb amounts of drugs (freshman had a bag of MDMA in his locker he forgot to remove before locker-cleaning day) or for selling drugs on campus (mostly MDMA/weed).
One anecdote: On a weekend, a friend of mine traded or sold his paintball gun to a classmate. They made the mistake of making the exchange in the school parking lot. A concerned parent followed them home and called the police on them. He is arrested because it is a gun-like object on school property, despite the fact that it is not a gun and he has no intention of shooting up a school.
I'd second this. A while ago there was an interesting television reportage on German Tv about this phenomenon. They showed things like people who called the police when their neighbors kids played on the street or parents monitoring their kids kindergarten via online webcams. Quite irritating stuff. Certainly, not every American is like this but the program was done by a serious public broadcaster so I guess there is something to it.
It's on youtube (in German language, obvs) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOkBI65TRjY
> America is experiencing a bizarre disconnect between real and perceived danger when it comes to kids.
America, not "the West". There is a very specific crazyness in America and kids. Apparently you can now be arrested in Arizona for touching kids genitalia for any reason whatsoever, including parents changing diapers, doctors examining children, etc. etc.
Kids are not fragile angels, they are just little people.
This study shows the restriction over four generations in England (very drastic):
http://thackara.com/learning-institutions/space-time-and-chi...
America might be slightly ahead of the rest of the world because of its car culture (reducing the need for children to walk places independently.) But it's a trend everywhere.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/1149812...
Even in European countries that are more liberal about this it's now relatively easy to find individual accounts of parents being harassed for leaving children unattended.
But "we" haven't arrested anyone. "We" should be replaced by "police officers" IMO.
I believe very very few people in America would disagree that "Police and the justice system can't become a substitute for parents and teachers."
Yuppie millennial parents are hands down the worst. It starts with the baby wearing and escalates from there. We've got a rooftop club-house/grill in our apartment building. I was grilling some steaks when my daughter (almost four) said she needed to use the bathroom. I took her inside, left her in the restroom, and went back to check on my steaks. When I got back, some mom was standing there with her in the hallway giving me the eye. Lady, kids don't get stolen from locked-down apartment buildings--relax.
[1] The school even posted 3-6th graders as "patrols" to help the smaller kids cross some of the intersections, with nary an adult in sight.
Even if you're not fond of attachment parenting, that doesn't imply that everything attachment parents like is a bad idea, or even that things that attachment parents like are primarily only popular with that subculture.
Did you read the article? If I have to choose between "get arrested and have my kids taken from me" or "have angry old man yell about me on the internet" the choice is clear.
I feel like there has never been a more vile and aggressive attack on common sense than these days, in the sense of a regression, rather than a progression of common sense which one would expect with a growing body of science.
Crime is at a 50 year low, and nearly everyone has health care. Not only that but more than two thirds of the population carries a location aware communication device that can be used to summon help almost anywhere in minutes.
I sometimes wonder if this is in fact the problem. Maybe we are so wired for scarcity and danger that we become neurotic and paranoid in its absence. It's analogous to the 'hygiene hypothesis' for allergies.
30 years ago there was more crime, but if it didn't happen in your town or to someone you knew, you were pretty unlikely to hear about it. Now, there's less crime but we're orders of magnitude more likely to hear about it.
IMO, this is a side-effect of 24-hour news networks and social media needing something to fill the dead air.
But how many of you would step up to slap down those morons who berate parents for leaving their kids in the car for 30 seconds?
THAT is what is needed. It is no good to simply THINK that these people are going overboard. We have to actively STOP the stupid busy-bodies from assaulting those poor parents.
Step up. Step in. And slap down.
The morons in question are generally litigation-happy brown-nosing assholes, so that's a good way to get charged with assault and battery.
If you were to also track the social changes that have increased the scrutiny on mothers (and parents as a unit), the question would arise if real, meaningful family income actually peaked in 1999. Perhaps it was in decline a long time before that?
I was in kindergarten in 1972. I grew up in an affluent, white neighborhood in the suburbs. At that time, it was thought normal that the children should walk to school on their own. The school was exactly 1 mile away. My parents kissed me goodbye at the door of our house, then I joined up with my friends, and we walked to school. Yes, we were 5 years old.
Any parent who does this nowadays will be arrested, but at the time it seemed safe because everyone did it. I never walked to school alone, I always walked with my classmates. I'm told that Japan is still somewhat like this, but obviously the USA has changed.
This is still how it works where I live - Norway.
Up to elementary school (1994) I would walk to the park with some friends after school and play or go to the library (next to the park) for 2.5 hours till my mom picked me up. It's where a lot of kids went.
Generally if there is only one or two kid left at the park, a parent would stay after to ensure everyone is picked up.
My middle school was in a different part of the city so not sure how much longer I would have continued that.
Everyone on the internet feels that they get to judge a parent's parenting ability.
Some kids are more responsible than others.
I was handling myself at age 6 in Europe. I was navigating public busses from age 6 on.
I have had police officers tell me I am putting my own kids in danger by leaving them alone in a car.... when they were 8 and 7 years old (and in front of my house).
The police officer couldn't even articulate what the exact danger was.
We aren't in Phoenix and the kids could get in and out on their own.
.... so NO.
It's well intentioned, and has been effective, but talk about keeping a society on edge about child safety. It's really unnerving.
[1] http://straightstatistics.fullfact.org/article/how-many-chil...
I think, "What are the odds that I am the guy who sees the car in the description and remembers the license plate number and calls the police and the child is saved." Then I think, "But if it were my child, I'd want every smart phone on the planet turned on." So I leave it on and endure the anxiety, and keep my eyes open, even though I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be that guy.
As Americans, we are inundated with news that tells us how bad our neighbors are and how they only want to harm our children. This may have started with some high profile kidnappings, etc. in the 80's and 90's. Now, you can't let your child go anywhere alone. Ever.
We're a blame society. If we do something wrong, it's someone else's fault. This thought process has expanded to if we see someone else doing something we think is wrong we blow it out of proportion. We so desperately want to find faults in others. As if that'll make our own faults less significant.
Note: 'We' is a generalization.
There's an obvious contradiction: How do we (Hacker News readers at least) agree that this is crazy but society keeps doing craziness like "arresting a mom for letting her kids, 8 and 9, wait at the condo for an hour".
Because HN readers tend to be an extremely small subset of the general population. General population will happily vote for Trump, le Pen, Orban, Petry and other populists, which in my opinion is equally stupid with arresting parents for growing up their kids "range-free"...
More and more, I have the feeling that "Idiocracy" looks more and more like a documentation of now than a satire.
'Progressive' ideology places the State in greater and greater control over defining most aspects of life, and tends to turn to law and mandates more frequently than other ideological systems. This naturally drives the use of state mechanisms as a means of operation and resolution over non-legal communal resolution between individuals.
The rational part of the population is bigger than people often realize it's just that they don't yell as loudly.
Because HN isn't a statistically representative sample of society as a whole.
Even very minor shark attack in Australia is blown out of all proportion until everyone thinks the wildlife in Australia is going to kill you.
It's the same reason everyone thinks Colombia, Mexico and Africa are insanely dangerous. The media/Hollywood told them so, and they believe it.
Never mind the more than 500 people a year that are murdered in NYC and another 500 in Chicago every single year. Nobody would tell a person not to go on vacation to NYC because it's too dangerous, but they'll talk until they're blue in the face about how you're going to be murdered in Senegal, Mauritania or Colombia.
It's a war going on outside we ain't safe from
I feel the pain in my city wherever I go
314 soldiers died in Iraq, 509 died in Chicago
- K. WestLies, damned lies and Kanye West statistics?
And Germany has a population of 80 million people. More than 10x the population of either NYC or Chicago, so it's actually over 10x safer
When you think about it from a media perspective, I think it's actually very insightful.
The American public was up in arms about the death of 314 soldiers on foreign soil, but seemingly oblivious to the >500 killed right at home in just one city in the good 'ol USA.
Surely all lives are equal, and it doesn't matter where a person is killed, but only that they are killed. For every minute of airtime given to the deaths Overseas, more than that should have been given to the deaths in Chicago alone. And NYC, and Baltimore, etc. etc.
It wasn't. The media is not giving an accurate representation of real life, and now people are making life decisions based on that false picture.
Liberal media and entertainers heavily criticized the war in Iraq, but said much less about the 1600 US soldiers killed in Afghanistan during Obama's term (496 in 2010).
If they could find a way to blame murders in Chicago or Detroit on Republicans, they'd spent a lot of airtime on that too.
Why do you think this? There seems to be very little basis for this in fact, and surely certain deaths are more tragic than others (surely and elderly man's passing is less tragic than that of a heroic soldier defending his brothers).
Also, homicides on home soil should be MORE publicized, because it has the potential for real-world impact on regular peoples lives (i.e. the people consuming this "news").
i.e. if I hear tons of soldiers are being murdered in Iraq, that really can't hurt me, today, and I don't need to change my life because of it.
In contrast, if I hear more than one person per day is being murdered in the city I live in, then that's possibly real impact to my life and that of my loved ones! I need to know that so I can make decisions based on that data. (i.e. if it went up to 10 per day, I'm getting the hell out)
I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not.
In fact the probability of stranger child abduction is at its lowest point in 50 years.
See also TSA and terrorism, etc.
> In fact, AMBER Alert is arguably an example of what could be called crime control theater. It is a socially constructed “solution” to a socially constructed problem, enabling public officials to symbolically address an essentially intractable threat.
[1] http://cjr.sagepub.com/content/33/2/159.abstract "Child Abduction, AMBER Alert, and Crime Control Theater"
But how many of you would step up to slap down those morons who berate parents for leaving their kids in the car for 30 seconds?
THAT is what is needed. It is no good to simply THINK that these people are going overboard. We have to actively STOP the stupid busy-bodies from assaulting those poor parents.
Also: This is a tangent discussion and has almost nothing to do anymore with the original topic.
Can we move past our resentment, please?
[1] http://www.cycle-helmets.com/germany-helmet-law-cost-analysi...
You have to remember it's not you who will cause a serious crash, it's the other idiots on the road.
I was rolling home from work a few years ago and a car blew a stop sign and T-Boned me and a good rate of speed. I bounced off the front of the car and hit the ground, more or less head (helmet) first.
I'm quit certain it saved my life, and the accident was entirely not my fault.
> Wearing a helmet reduced the risk of head injury by 63% (95% confidence interval 34% to 80%) and of loss of consciousness by 86% (62% to 95%).
http://www.bmj.com/content/308/6922/173?linkType=FULL&ck=nck...
> Bike helmet use increased significantly during the first 4 years of the campaign and again after the helmet law was implemented. The total number of bike-related head injury admissions declined by more than 50%.
http://www.jpedsurg.org/article/S0022-3468(00)15165-6/abstra...
And a paper that speaks directly on your topic, the effects of legislation mandating helmet use:
> The rate of helmet use rose dramatically after legislation was enacted, from 36% in 1995 and 38% in 1996, to 75% in 1997, 86% in 1998 and 84% in 1999. The proportion of injured cyclists with head injuries in 1998/99 was half that in 1995/96 (7/443 [1.6%] v. 15/416 [3.6%]) (p = 0.06).
The real issue is such things as driver behaviour changing around people with helmets making accidents more likely, or mandated helmet usage leading to fewer people choosing the bicycle as their mode of transportation, making things more dangerous in two ways: people choosing other options that are more dangerous than bicycling, and the fact that more bicycles on the road means less danger because 1. people get used to interacting with bicycles in traffic, and 2. there are fewer cars on the road.
You need to look at the broader picture. You can't just look at a fire escape where people gets injured because they trip down the stairs and conclude that the solution should be to remove the fire exit. Sure, it will definitely decrease the number of injuries in that fire exit but that's not really helpful, is it?
http://www.cyclehelmets.org/1139.html
If you would rather watch than read, there's this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07o-TASvIxY
For example: http://pss.sagepub.com/content/early/2016/01/05/095679761562...
TED talk discussing the issues:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07o-TASvIxY
Common sense would dictate that the helmet is safer, but we could argue the science leaves a lot to be desired.
Cops told us that there are more fatal accidents closer to home/in short runs because people don't pay as much attention and don't have as much gear on.
Evidently, "cops" aren't statisticians: base rates matter.
I am nervous about cyclists both as driver and as pedestrian. When I walk, they can turn out of nowhere where a car is not expected, and they are silent. I can suddenly turn or stop, and a cyclist can happily bump into me, as it has happened more than once.
On the road, cyclists are much more vulnerable than pedestrians (it takes just a light touch to tip over the bike), and they often ignore the basic safety rules like "never pass on red". I mean, I respect your mode of transportation, but please respect ours! I don't want to go to jail, and most cyclists probably wouldn't want to be dead, so it is better to play it safe.
> Rolling through a stop sign is a serious offense for us, and outright dangerous.
It's not outright dangerous, assuming you're in North America. The US has so many stop signs that the safety message is lost, the vast majority are pointless.
In Europe [1], small junctions in residential areas don't have any signs at all. Where they meet larger roads, they just have yield signs. If there's a lot of traffic, there could be a mini roundabout (painted roundabout), which just changes the way people yield -- to the left, rather than to the larger road. In all these cases, it's not required to stop. The driver/cyclist uses their judgement, based on traffic, visibility, and so on.
Stop signs are used sparingly, and show there's a real danger. For example, in the UK "stop signs may be placed only at sites with severely restricted visibility, and each must be individually approved by the Secretary of State for Transport" [2]. Where I grew up in England, I know of only one stop sign out of all the routes we took to visit places. It was where an overhanging mediæval building obscured the view of traffic at a junction.
[1] the parts with roads at least as safe as the USA
1. Providing a simple, general purpose traffic control. Going through every town and re-thinking every intersection on a case by case basis would be quite costly, and the amount of public controversy might make it prohibitive.
2. Limiting speed. My house is on a stretch of street that has no stop signs for a few blocks, and cars get going pretty fast, typically 10 to 20 mph above the speed limit of 30 mph.
3. Encouraging drivers to use the main roads instead of neighborhood streets.
It took becoming a parent to get me to slow down.
Speeding in the city limits is of course nuts. I can understand people who test their cars at night on empty highways, though it is still dangerous (you don't know if another car will attempt to take the in-ramp really slow). But in a the city it is madness, pedestrians and cyclists can jump from everywhere. Lives can be ruined.
Cars are dangerous, let's respect that.
This is not true. It depends on the location, traffic conditions, and your knowledge of the area.
I regularly get frustrated on my (.4 mile) bike commute home when 1-5 cars in a row don't pay attention to 2 of my 3 stop signs. Likely, all in an effort to save 30 seconds on their 50 minute 1 way commute.
So, it seems that negligence is common and it's not so serious of an offense. We can agree on it being dangerous though.
Location: Atlanta, GA.
It's a shame, the outcome ended up costing the innocent gorilla's life instead of the Mom's:
Maybe there should be a law that flags news with colours of a probability scale so that there is at least a chance to correctly classify bad events.
The gorilla enclosure was built to prevent the gorilla from getting out, not to prevent people from getting in.
Edit: Before and after of the fence https://www.dailywire.com/sites/default/files/uploads/2016/0...
It's simply called life. It happens. 99.99% of the time nothing bad happens whatsoever, and you never even think twice about it. Actually both parties probably didn't even realize it happened.
Was she negligent? Who really knows. Calling her clearly negligent is just being completely disingenuous to the point of more or less full on dishonesty. Taking 20 seconds to inspect a map or tap out a SMS is not negligence, and is all the time that would have taken.
You're the reason the attitude in this article exists, unfortunately. Even if you think you're being reasonable in this instance. Try living under the constant threat that you can't divide your attention for less than a minute 24 hours a day. It's an absurd thing to demand from anyone, and is not reasonable.
The way "society" expects you to raise children in the US has to be the most unhealthy in the world. It's becoming absolutely absurd how much we coddle children and expect parents to stop having an adult life.
The three year old throws his sunglasses on the ground and starts fussing for something and you turn to deal with that and then boom your 2 year old is 15 feet away and running the other direction or making national news headlines.
If you don't have multiple kids you literally have no clue what it's like, especially if you happen to be outnumbered at the time.
Now, I'm not saying she wasn't negligent because I wasn't there- but I also know that you can be on point 99.99999% of the time and still wind up with a serious problem or worse.
And, frankly, why is the gorilla's life worth more than the mom's? Why is his life worth more than the child's? Was Harambe going to cure cancer, lower the world's greenhouse gas emissions, or become an astrophysicist that could help us colonize other planets? Was Harambe going to lead the charge on saving all the other gorillas in the world?
It sucks that he had to get killed because of an accident, but what kind of person actually thinks that in a decision between a fucking kid and a gorilla that the gorilla should win? That kid literally represents the continuation of humanity.
Edit: or as one internet meme put it:
A child has fallen in the gorilla enclosure. You hold a gun with one bullet and you can choose to shoot the gorilla to save the child. If you do so, he will make national headlines and lead to discussions that question our morality. If you don't, the child might will be rescued and the gorilla will live out his days in peace in the gorilla enclosure, completely unknown to the world. He will not be as famous. In the end, what do we value more: Harambe or the idea of Harambe?
/me puts on flameproof gear
Since this started with a gorilla... From a purely numbers-based point of view, it actually makes sense. Death of a single member of near-extinct species has a negative impact on the viability of that species. A death of a single human (or even few of them) will not make a difference. Not on a planet where human overpopulation is an increasingly pressing problem.
Even if you disagree with the idea of conservation, at least have some sympathy for the future Epicureans. By driving species into extinction, we are depriving those future society members of experiences they might otherwise have.
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If there was a way you could guarantee that the gorilla and child make it out of that cage unscathed I'm absolutely all for doing that. After that, if you're saying there's a chance the child gets hurt, I don't care who's kid it is, I'm okay with pulling the trigger. I'm not being metaphorical, I'm saying I am so okay with the idea that I would be okay if I personally had to pull the trigger.
I love animals, even ones most people don't like. I love the continuation of our species' future more than I love animals though.
The thing that is crazy to me is that people push the idea that animals are pure and free of evil and we are the bad ones in every situation. Can't you push that same image into our children as well? Shouldn't an innocent child be at least equal in the eyes of the public as an innocent animal? And if they start out equally, doesn't the child win because without children we literally cease to exist?