Why Americans don't take sick days
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So for the rest of the year, say my insomnia shows up and I've been awake since 8 AM the previous day, I go to work anyway. I get maybe two hours of work done all day, but I sit at my desk and that's apparently what's important. That's only happened once this year, but it was Monday this week so it's fresh in my mind.
It's stupid. But I've got one sick day left and I might need it worse come flu season.
There are plenty of things I like about my job, but our time off policy is not among them... In the tech industry I'm guessing this is less common because it's not easy to hire good programmers. In other industries, I doubt it's an unusual experience.
After everything it indeed sometimes feels like it comes down to this. They want to see you physically sitting at your desk for at least 8 full hours, that's the only 'measurement' in productivity that most companies seem to care about.
Sick days do get logged, and if I really need more time off I can start burning vacation days. Given the choice, I'd rather spend a shitty sleep deprived unproductive day at work.
Eventually goes up to 10 sick days, but I don't remember when the threshold is. Frankly it's a strange thing to base on seniority, as if newer employees somehow get sick less?
Email/call in sick, stay at home. There is an implicit "stay a little later when you're feeling better and/or make up lost time on the weekend". As long as nothing falls behind it isn't an issue. That's the informal policy. If you were ahead or don't fall behind - the extra hours don't need to be picked up. The only important thing is that things remain on schedule.
Hungover, sick, just don't feel like coming in that day, doesn't really matter.
None of that's impossible, but doing it for the whole company is apparently enough effort/money that we haven't done it.
We do have a couple of remote employees, and they're a hassle with our ancient phone system. Once you transfer a call out to them there's no way for them to pass it back to the internal system. It's not a good setup for people who are frequently taking technical calls but need to send ordering/pricing questions to coworkers in customer service and quotations.
In my experience, managers are particularly good at coming in and spreading germs because they "had an important meeting and so much to do."!
Also, I recall my time in Japan where I had 0 sick days and 10 PTO days for the year. The explicitly communicated expectation was that PTO was to be reserved for weddings, funerals, and sick days. Also, doing everything possible to not get sick was described as part of your professional obligation.
So even my relatively poor benefits at said SV startup was leagues beyond what I had as a salaryman soldier. ;)
They only discourage people from keeping contagious colds away and at home which means more get affected and hurt office productivity more!
- They aren't given that many
- Medical expenses are HUGE
- There's societal pressure to not take them
- It's easier to fall behind in work (and get fired if you do)
I really should count my blessings - I rarely feel sick enough to take a sick day - maybe at most once a year. I understand that other people aren't like that, and I'm fine with that. As long as everyone is doing their part, and we're all pulling together, it's all good.
It comes from a quote attributed to John Steinbeck: Socialism never took root in America because the poor see themselves not as an exploited proletariat, but as temporarily embarrassed millionaires.
> It doesn't matter if most voters don't benefit. They all believe that someday they will. > That's the problem with the American dream. It makes everyone concerned for the day they're gonna be rich
http://www.westwingtranscripts.com/search.php?flag=getTransc...
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I see the doctor for checkups, I had many appointments to accompany my wife to the OBGYN, and appointments for my new baby...I don't take time off for those.
If I'm feeling under the weather I stay home and do a bit of work. If I had actual sick days I would be more inclined to take an entire day off, especially if towards the end of the year.
When I worked for the govt I took mental days...day where it would be pointless to come to the office because I'm not motivated and would be unproductive. After a day off I'm good to go. Counted that as sick.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/eu/6190826/...
Instead come in, muddle along, and infect everyone.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't consider staying home, or that you shouldn't consider your coworkers health while making the decision. If company productivity is critical to you (keep company afloat) it's in your interest to value it highly as well, if not it is one of the weakest arguments.
If my being sick is a problem with my employer, I am more than happy to let him reduce the productivity of his employees.
It's the employer's responsibility to maximize productivity across their work force. If they want to reduce infection to maximize productivity then it's their responsibility to make sure employees have enough sick time. If management doesn't care enough to have a reasonable policy, why should individual employees care about overall productivity?
The only time I ever had to keep track of sick days and vacation days is when I worked for the government and it was awful. There is no reason to do that to white collar workers.
This is one reason why I think it's funny when developers mistakenly think of their managers and higher as "colleagues." Software developers are much closer to blue collar workers than white collar workers from a social status perspective.
White collar work is in an office setting. Blue collar work is manual labor.
Telemarketers are white collar. Construction managers are blue collar.
But so few jobs require suit and tie compared to 60 years ago, that the definition has shifted to "office job" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White-collar_worker.
If I'm sick and out of sick days I can either go in to work (infecting everyone else), burn a vacation day, or (presumably) not get paid. I've never been willing to risk trying the third option, and since I don't have a ton of vacations days, I'm most likely to pick the first one.
I guess I get it .. there needs to be some catch to stop the system being abused. But at the same time .. if it's too low, the employer is abusing us.
I had no idea that my country (Netherland) had the most generous law in this regard. The Dutch system sounds fairly obvious to me, and it works very well. Healthy, happy workers don't stay at home sick. Of course there are people who do abuse the system, but when people call in sick unusually often, it's generally a sign of a deeper problem, like hating their job or not being motivated to do it. And those are problems that need to be solved, not ignored.
Let's just say a non-critical component I was working on was delayed by me being sick and it was counted against me later on. I noped right the fuck out of there as soon as I could.
Always be skeptical of the ones offering "unlimited" time off. Because it's never unlimited, in my experience.
If they really wanted you to take time off they'd have a minimum, but strangely few "unlimited" companies do, why is that? Most non-unlimited companies give you a set amount that "expire" which essentially encourages you to use them all (which is a GOOD thing).
PS - And no doubt there will be an anecdote below about the one company that does have a minimum. My point is that that company is a unicorn, most unlimited companies have no minimum and don't legitimately expect/want you to take a lot of days.
More broadly, my question is this: Since clearly, you cannot have unlimited vacation, what is the actual legal language in contracts at such companies that creates the situation of "unlimited" vacation and what exactly is that situation legally (since it's obviously not unlimited vacation)?
I just view the unlimited as equal or greater than industry average days. Most companies give 20 days vacation plus sick in my area so I feel untitled to that much. The rest is just icing on the cake if I get.
Hmm not entirely sure. I've seen unlimited not work out very well for some of my friends as well so I feel like it's more of a reflection on the policy but it's all anecdotal. I think it can work out really well but only if there is a base amount of PTO (so you can get paid out when you quit / end of year) and if they require you to take a certain amount off.
If I have a mild headache, can I take a sick day? What if it's November and I haven't used any sick days? What if I'm nauseous when I wake up, but I'm fine by lunch? Can I use sick days for psychological reasons? What if someone sees me in public and thinks I don't look sick? Should I follow these rules, or can I fake a phone cough as well as my co-workers?
Just give me an allotment for paid time off (and maybe unpaid time off), and let me run my life/work balance.
Yes.
>What if I'm nauseous when I wake up, but I'm fine by lunch?
Take half a sick day?
>Can I use sick days for psychological reasons?
Yes.
>What if someone sees me in public and thinks I don't look sick?
When taking a sick day, limit your public outings to the doctor / pharmacist.
As a father with two little kids who are always getting sick, this was great. It was useable for their visits for shots and times when my wife could not change her schedule easily (she does by appointment, in-home yoga/physical therapy, can be tricky to bail on a person that needs your help on short notice). I still had the ability to stay home if I got sick at some point (which happens way more with kids).
This was the way for years. Until this year. Now it's a hard 5 weeks of combined sick and vacation time.
With plans already set up for the year, plane tickets booked, for weddings, vacation, etc. I'd burned it all up by June. So here I am with 3 days of vacation/sick leave left. If I get sick now I'm going to work.
That, coupled with losing a non-trivial amount of vacation hours has caused people to leave here in droves (with other mgmt issues coming in after the sick/vacay policy change and doubling the insurance premium). I don't really know what they were thinking as every other high tech company around us has a much better sick/vacation policy, better insurance. They can afford it, according to HR/accounting folks I talked to at happy hours. They're just making the numbers look better for their own benefit.
So TL;DR (and having read this article, far too frequently) the real answer management screws us out of it.
I take sick days when I hurt my back and can't get out of bed but end up with my phone and iPad in bed taking emails and attending meetings/calls
This year we did a week in June and nearly 3 weeks in October for vacation. :)
Oh gee let's not get pneumonia because I've got not more sick days left after that flu from last week. Ridiculous concept.
Walk into the head of HR's office and tell them about it. Make sure you become a close talker and linger around a few minutes. Maybe leave a tissue in the trash can. They probably came up with the policy.
If you don't get anywhere, go into your boss's office and their boss' office and do the same. Definitely don't go to your peer's office / cube.