1. House - get a roommate (or 3) if you're young and have no family living with you. They will be your main friend(s)

2. Get a secured credit card from a credit union to build up your credit

3. Take out a loan with said credit union after a few months (even if you don't need it)

4. Friends --- work, meetup.com, gym classes, sports leagues, random bars if you're an extrovert. Go everywhere you are invited.

5. Job - Use consulting firms here to get contracts and work your way in. Look for healthcare mainly,but a job in a decent sized city so you can connect with others (after an ok salary of course)

6. Phone - Get a cheap prepaid cell