NASA Team Probes Peculiar Age-Defying Star
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Maybe a shockwave could set off a nova event, or the addition of matter could trigger a collapse, but I'm not sure how it could jumpstart nuclear fusion again.
In the case of slowly decaying orbits, one star usually ends up stripping most of the atmosphere from its partner, before the core eventually passes its Roche limit, breaks apart, and is accreted. In that case you get a series of Novas (not to be confused with supernovas), and a somewhat larger star when all is finally said and done. Lots of debris, occasionally very bright.
It's hard to imagine a situation in which two stars "merge" without a slow process of cannibalization. Compact collapsed bodies like white dwarves, neutron stars and the rest definitely do merge, but they're so much denser than a "living" star.