Okay, fine.
There's solutions for all the other stuff.
It used to be that you couldn't get high speed broadband in most places - now it's more widely available and even advertised in listings.
5-10 years and we'll start to see new houses/apartments advertised as having an 'EV ready parking spot'.
If you're married or cohabiting, you most likely have two vehicles anyway. You're not going to bring both of them when you go on a weekend outing with your significant other or family, so having one EV just for commuting absolutely can make financial sense in that situation. There's a reason many families have one nice car and one crappy beater car; the beater gets used for one person's commute, and the nice car is used for the other's commute plus family trips.