Why does it have to be this "Dark Matter" causing the mass differences we've been seeing? How do we know it isn't undetectable-through-normal-means normal matter, or aliens, or mistakes in our calculations/observations, or anything else?
Since we haven't been able to detect dark matter, it seems from my layman point of view that any of the above "hypotheses" are equally viable.
What am I missing that makes astronomers and physicists so sure that this "dark matter" exists?
Edit: Thanks for all the great responses! I'm not going to respond to each response, but the discussion has been enlightening.