Perhaps you accepted the new terms more than 30 days ago and instead of showing a greyed-out checkbox, they simply hide it altogether.
More likely he hasn't received the relevant update yet.
Or maybe because Facebook app isn't installed? I don't have it on mine, so maybe they're not 'linked'
Neither do I. My app was updated last night. I don't use Facebook, but I as I can't opt out I can't assure myself that the will be no sharing with their 'partners'. So I am out.
Same here, I went through all settings twice and checked for sw updates. No luck so far. I miss the days when all friends were on IRC...
I just got the notification today. Looks like I simply hadn't upgraded.