My problem with whatsapp is that there's no way to use it without giving access to my entire contact list to the app. And that's out of the question for me.
This is what annoys me the most. I can't control what people put in their address book about me (physical address, email, photo, phone number, maybe even more infos) and who they share my info with.
then you can safely share your 'normal' contacts with Whatsapp.