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After reading the Gmail blog entry on it, I'd call it an invisible delayed passive confirmation, since Gmail labels it "undo" rather than "cancel." Makes perfect sense, though.
Thinking about it more, I'm a little surprised that this hasn't made its way into standard e-mail clients, at least as a feature.
the mockup looks good too
[1] http://gmailblog.blogspot.com/2009/03/new-in-labs-undo-send....
Having a "sending in 10 seconds" option may well be useful in her case.
In my case I sometimes squeeze out an email at a subway station just before my connection cuts off as we head on to the next station.