I hear pkgsrc[1] is pretty decent for osx as well. I keep wanting to try it out, but haven't yet.
I just had a look again and found that ffmpeg is one minor version behind behind stable, its binary is annoyingly called "ffmpeg3", and it was compiled somewhere with LLVM 6 / clang 600, versus LLVM 8 / clang 800 on my macOS 10.12 system. I tried to compile it manually (after a shallow clone of their massive, 250,000+ commit git repo), but failed.
For me Homebrew does the right thing here — they basically turn my Mac into a rolling release Linux desktop like Arch Linux, which is great for the userland type packages I use: openssh, zsh, tmux, postgresql, ffmpeg, git, vim, rsync, etc.