Beyond that, there are 10s of thousands of characters with a much closer correspondence to the Chinese ones (although perhaps a number in the low thousands are commonly used in everyday life). About the first thousand are taught to grade schoolers. I don't think that the correspondence is perfect, but these are supposed to be the more common characters, in general (and are taught earlier for that reason). Roughly the next 1000 are taught during middle and high school.
As a Japanese learner, we tended to have example sentences that introduced new grammar constructs, new words, and new characters for those words (if they're commonly written non-phonetically). I think by the 4th semester of class, the goal was to have mastery of the ~100 phonetic characters (the hiragana and the katakana), along with perhaps 500 of the non-phonetic characters (the kanji), along with different ways that various characters would be pronounced when used in different words.
In general, I feel like we did cover legitimately useful words and characters, but that if the text (literally) left out the less-used "letters", it'd be a premature optimization that wouldn't gain you much. If you mean that more commonly-used words should be given priority, then I agree, in principle.
Learning styles are a myth. The best way is pretty much the same for everyone.
You might argue repetition means someone might get bored and give up, hence a fun style is better even if it's slower.
That's... an impressive opinion to hold. Good luck with that.
I quote: "Although the literature on learning styles is enormous, very few studies have even used an experimental methodology capable of testing the validity of learning styles applied to education. Moreover, of those that did use an appropriate method, several found results that flatly contradict the popular meshing hypothesis. We conclude therefore, that at present, there is no adequate evidence base to justify incorporating learning-styles assessments into general educational practice."
Wikipedia has many links to more criticism of the concept: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learning_styles#Criticism
For instance: Psychologists Scott Lilienfeld, Barry Beyerstein, and colleagues listed as one of the "50 great myths of popular psychology" the idea that "students learn best when teaching styles are matched to their learning styles", and they summarized some relevant reasons not to believe this "myth".