You could have done the inverse, as currently done with X11 (server-side decoration by default, but overridable).
This incurs in stupid behavior for all tiling window managers in wayland, as they cannot enforce the client to remove the title bar. For a tiling window manager user, this a significant downgrade in wayland. The WM protocol in X11 is one of the few areas that let X11 innovate a lot compared to all other desktops. The number of (wonderfully) different window managers is proof. Server-side decorations, in particular, should have been a no-brainer!