Facebook taking mobile numbers from other sources and adding them to profiles
telegraph.co.uk
telegraph.co.uk
My pictures or posts are not visible to anyone but who's friends with me. Nobody can post anything on my wall or tag me in any picture or wall post without me approving the tag. Nobody can add me as a friend if they are not also friends with at least one of my friends (and I hate that I can't prevent anyone from adding me, only enabling it when I actually need it or asking for friendship myself).
That being said, Facebook might as well do without asking you if you want to give them your phone number if they end up disregarding your decision and getting it anyway.
That's a dick move that might well mean I will delete my account. Not that it would make any difference for them, but being without Facebook won't make any difference to my life either.
(I haven't paid attention to whether it's the same number every time I've been asked, though; I probably should, and perhaps do a reverse search on it to see if I can find out who it belongs to.)