1) Economic progress from the industrial revolution is about quantity. We learned to make a lot more stuff. The industrial revolution is not quite done, but the impact is less and less every decade. We may never match that quantity growth of stuff because we don't even want more stuff, we only want better stuff. And we're getting better stuff and more variety.
2) Info. tech. IS being mismeasured and it's huge. We're not all imagining it. The economics of info tech are REALLY good except in the official GDP numbers. And arguing that it's not counted in economic measurements doesn't debunk the mismeasurement claim, it supports/explains it. What's more, info tech decimates a lot of industries - music, GPS, newspapers, travel agents, etc. And self-driving cars are probably going to decimate the auto industry and wipe out a lot of logistics related jobs. Everyone(A) will be better off but official GDP will fall.
3) Wages aren't growing largely because the economy needs more skilled and more managerial workers, but we don't seem to be producing a lot of them(B). It's an awesome time to be a skilled worker. Good and growing pay and billboard signs desperately seeking talent. There's no end to work that needs to be done with the right skills. Meanwhile, unskilled workers aren't so useful anymore. They were well off when anybody could sit in an assembly line and produce a lot of stuff. But now unskilled workers don't really produce, they mostly trade their time for other people's time (e.g. by cooking their food) and they do so from a weak negotiating position. I don't see any of this changing anytime soon.
(A) Everyone = the vast majority of people
(B) Anecdotal, I could be wrong