You can change your privacy settings so you have to approve everything before going on your wall/feed.
grrr
It will still show up in your "newsfeed" of other posts -- the thing you typically browse.
It's an example of a dark or semi-dark pattern from FB. You can't really stop it, nor others' actions with respect to it. You can only limit some of its propagation and perception.
You on FB? You get tagged.
That hasn't happened to me... I don't approve some photo tags my friends added and they're not on my profile at all.
The photo/post does appears in my newsfeed because well, my friend posted it. Unless I unfollow them it'll show up, right?