My point is you probably shouldn't normalize this kind of behavior or advise your daughter to forgive it and steer men like this towards someone to mentor them. Women don't have an obligation to raise men they didn't help birth, and teaching them that they ought to promulgates misogyny of a different form. I understand this is meant in the spirit of "turn the other cheek", but this isn't really good advice unless you're already operating on the principle of good faith and equal standing. It's not even clear that this alleviates the original problem, since why would men who don't respect women be amenable to this?
Teach them to require consent and communication, and tell them they'll always have your support. Beyond that, don't get involved in what may or may not be virtuous behavior to you. Women inherit a lot of puritanical guilt over nonsense that parents project onto them.
I understand the desire to protect your children, and particularly your daughter in a world that generally values them less. But misogyny is a power dynamic that is reinforced by socializing women to normalize it and especially by socializing men to perceive their existence and agency as more valuable.