This is all valid analysis, and I agree.
But we as engineers have to recognize that the socialization of technology is squishy and illogical.
Even if we're correct, and that dispassionate analysis will move society forward, not everyone will agree. And they will have strong arguments, made stronger if we aren't contextually aware.
Demonization of tech is very possible. If we want driverless cars and a host of other things in our lifetimes, we have to be approach the socialization with some sensitivity.
Brashness is fine, but risky. If it's just a website going down in flames, no one cares. But cars kill people. Brashness will be rewarded with regulations. Possibly shortsighted regulations that do more long term harm than good, because politics.
Today, drivers (and mechanical failures) kill people and we have a social structure to deal with that. Tomorrow, cars will kill people in situations where drivers would not have, and where everything is operating according to spec.
That's a big change, which not everyone is ready for. And snotty tech billionaires will not be sympathetic characters in the ensuing press/political discourse.