That's not necessarily true in Boston, New York city or Southern New Hampshire.
Lots of people do head down to the greater Boston area, though, and that commute is pretty brutal.
If you do get a job in New Hampshire itself, the high tech companies that have to hustle to make enough money to keep up with Boston salaries or risk losing people to the commute.
I live in New Hampshire and I love it but I can't say my work life balance is any better than when I lived in Boston. But my quality of life is quite a bit better. I have a house here, I could never have that in Boston.