Elites are the guys who make deals for a living. Investors, executives, traders, etc. The people who
own the tech companies, the people who service the IPOs, the people who own the real estate we pay such ridiculous rents on, the CEOs and board members of our employers and the companies we buy stuff from.
Our pay is high, all things considered, but not nearly as high as law or medicine, and certainly not management. I'd say we are rising from the upper tier of clerical workers to the lower tier of educated professionals. That is "elite" compared to the average person, certainly, but not compared to the economy as a whole.
The term generally given to this strata is "upper middle class." Some resent calling it middle class at all, but nonetheless - there is a critical distinction between "owners of the means of production," "managers of the means of production," and "highly skilled operators of the means of production."