Yes, you can certainly find a company to pay you less than $100,000 to program computers for a living. That's not in dispute. But know that you (meaning you as well as anybody else anywhere in the US or the English speaking world) can also find a remote gig paying more than that.
Good developers are very valuable. Even in the sticks. Please don't sell yourself short.
Employers appear to want you to be in at least a somewhat similar time zone as their core team and have some prior experience working remotely.
Take this hypothetical person living in the sticks. 3.5 years of experience doing local development. No prior remote experience -> not given the time of day by remote shops -> can't get remote experience.
Exactly HOW does one get $100,000 working remotely? When no-one's ever heard of you?
"Yeah just get a six figures remote job......... if you have tons of experience/large network/expert on a niche/top open source projects".
True, though many people live on the coast specifically because of its tech industry. Sweeping that away is no better than pretending that it's the only game in town.