It's really tiring to see bitcoin promoted as some sort of second-coming-of-Christ when all evidence points to it being nothing more than an interesting experiment.
When it won't be enough, Lightning network will be adapted, as there will be a need for it. Premature scaling is the root of all evil. :)
It's like saying that banks allow you to send money instantly, because you can just give cash to your friend by hand.
Giving cash to a friend still requires me to withdraw the cash from an ATM, pass it to the friend, who then needs to deposit it using a deposit ATM or visit his branch.
One involves a few clicks on your online banking website, the other requires a much longer process. The backend company isn't really relevant, what is relevant is that 'Faster Payments' has been used as a marketing term for 'near instant bank transfers' that transparently use FPSL as a backend.
Not at all equivalent.
Not when it's someone malicious exfiltrating your money.
With the banking system, you generally have some recourse - they're legally responsible for refunding you in some cases, they're able to cancel or claw back transactions in some cases, etc.
TL;DR: It's nice not to be totally fucked for a small mistake.
The problem with Bitcoin is that you are your own bank. Implementing personal bank-level security is hard. There is no tech support to call and no authority except your own.