Why you shouldn’t share private links on Facebook
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> When is a link scraped and stored in Facebook’s database?
> From my testing I assume that a link is stored in Facebook’s database from the moment someone actually clicks it on Facebook. This does not apply to links shared through Facebook which no one clicks on.
Watching server logs at the time I paste the link, the link is scraped immediately. Before you even hit send immediately. I imagine they do this so that they can populate the little preview window if you've pasted something that has an og:image or other rich media. If you paste it, it's instant, otherwise if you're manually typing the link it seems to wait for you to type a space character.
Links are leaky, think about Referer, JS to access history, DNS request, ...
I like iMessage for that reason -- Apple doesn't see my messages. I don't know what's happening with my email on Google's servers, or my instant messages with friends on chat apps for example, but I assume the data is stored for a long time, even if you delete it.
Just today there's news about a dating website being hacked and private messages leaked - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12008234 That's with a smaller site, it's only time before one of the big boys are leaked.