Boring but possibly interesting audio for going to sleep
trackchanges.postlight.com
trackchanges.postlight.com
Drew Ackerman has a keen understanding of cadence, stream of consciousness, and knowing his audience that allows him to craft an efficient insomnia assassin. You want to follow him down the rabbit hole and see where he goes with it, and by the time your brain realizes it hasn't been thinking about that big presentation you have tomorrow, you're already asleep. If you happen to jolt awake, you struggle to figure out how long it has been...and you are out like a light again.
Boring content simply gets tuned out quickly, and you are back to your racing thoughts. Boring content doesn't entice you to try and stay with it, and that is why this hasn't worked before.
Sleep with Me is an absolute gem and I feel like it's just beginning to scratch the surface of how technology can help us rest instead of distracting us from sleep like it has done so much up to this point.
I could instantly relate when I read that "I need to convince myself that I’m doing something meaningful in order to finally disengage". Many people go to bed with a feeling of not deserving their rest, of having a debt to themselves because they missed opportunities or procrastinated heavily during the day, a debt that can be repaid by using their last minutes of the day to do something meaningful to compensate for the wasted time. Presidential speeches, old radio shows, financial crisis analysis, all these create the illusion that you take full advantage of your time, keeping your brain active and broadening your knowledge. Them being boring is an added bonus.
On the other hand, actively trying to get myself bored would most probably get me anxious, wondering exactly how wisely I am spending my time, which is not really what you want when trying to fall asleep.
I sleep to old Simpsons episodes. I know them inside out, and at least the older ones have a fairly calm rhythm. I don't need to pay attention because I know what is happening but it still distracts me from all the kinds of thoughts you mention. I love the episodes, so I don't feel like I'm wasting my time.
Here's a good example of one I've found that has helped me to fall asleep [1].
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autonomous_sensory_meridian_re...
https://www.reddit.com/r/asmr/comments/26mqkp/meta_the_100_m...
There is a newer version of this list, but I can't find it.
Huh? Does anyone else find doing so completely impossible?
I start to feel kinda claustrophobic when i'm in headphones - not being able to hear the world around me leads to the "fire, burglars, plane crash, doomsday" kind of anxiety.
I move around a lot during my sleep, mostly to roll to one side or the other and get comfortable again. I don't trust a dangling wire. I could probably do wireless earbuds, but I'm not made of money; a simple speaker would work fine.
Then again, I don't find audio to be a big issue for me, but rather light. I installed blackout curtains in my room, and immediately found that I could more consistently stay asleep for 7.5 hours without any trouble. Distracting audio is a problem, but the low drone from my air conditioner is usually more than enough to help me zone out for the day.
I usually put the phone to a very low volume instead, and place it either face down or propped up against something, to get more direct sound from the speaker at the bottom.
The only downside is that out of those 30 minutes, I might remember 30, 10, or nothing. It all depends. So I spend a lot of time seeking backwards trying to figure out if I remember hearing that bit, made more difficult by trying to avoid accidental spoilers.
Maybe that's why people are having a hard time going to sleep in the first place. Do you have to be productive even while falling asleep?
Also, do you have dreams from the audiobook story? I was doing this for a while but had to stop due to nightmares.
I've listened to spoken word stuff (podcasts, audiobooks) for a few years now and found it cured my insomnia 100%. I realized I'm a verbal thinker who struggles to think properly when other people are speaking and listening to speech sends me to sleep fast. I don't even need boring stuff though, I work my way through audiobooks about 5-10 minutes a night :-)
Teaching Company audio courses are great too.
I think it usually follows "Book at Bedtime" [2], but that's less soporific.
[1] Example: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b07gct6w (works for me outside the UK). As an additional treat, if you listen to the end and through the national anthem, you'll hear the "time pips" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greenwich_Time_Signal
Of course this is nothing revolutionary, but I highly recommend trying it for anyone going to sleep with a lump of stress in their chest or stomach at night. :)
However several months later a huge problem occurred. Both my ears were infected, left moreso than the right, that caused me a great deal of irritation and pain. Many months of visiting doctors, hospitals and medicine did this horrible problem get better.
Bear this in mind even though I was using dettol wipes to disinfect my headphones daily!
My technique is simple. I listen only to things I have already listened to in a fully waking context. No surprises, no excitement.
Spoken word only. Nothing with music or sound effects.
I hope to take a year off sometime and kick this habit.