What are the three best books you've read on teaching anything to kids? Let me know, and we'll start from there.
1) Start with books like: How To Read A Book, Thinking Fast and Slow
2) Then, move on to books like: The Secret of Childhood, Instead of Education, Mindstorms
3) Then, you are ready for: Flow, The Children's Machine
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If you've missed 'Hare Brain, Tortoise Mind', I do recommend it. IMHO, Gladwell's Blink was HBTM with most of the material replaced with funny stories.