This is one of my theories about why there isn't any alien life around. There is some party far in the future with a beacon or message that shouts "JOIN US HERE IN THE MIDDLE OF GALAXY R345Q2 10 BILLION YEARS IN THE FUTURE!"
After about 10 thousand years of hearing the beacon and being alone we finally get restless and just build a couple thousand giant spaceships and join the rest of the universe in the most cosmopolitan place ever.