I can't, but I did get a vote to pick them. I don't think your question speaks to the issue of the European commission being unelected.
Being interested in democracy means using your vote (or making a decision to abstain). Not bothering to vote is incompatible with the declared interest in democracy.
That's a strawman.
Plenty of people are not interested in all or part of a democratic system, but appreciate that it exists, and that it provides channels through which they can influence the way they are governed, if they deem it necessary.