Ask HN: Rate my site
yaymylife.com
yaymylife.com
The last thing that jumps out on the page is the content. The share links and ads are overwhelming.
Your design doesn't fit your mood. You don't have to come up with a design all yourself, just steal the features you like from other sites.
I think something like the bing.com design could work REALLY well for your site. Some bright and inspiring fotogs, then maybe a translucent block to hold the content.
Don't be afraid to make the content for people to read in a big font. The length of each individual peace of content is so small that it doesn't matter if it stretches onto a few lines.
If you look at the page right now, the ads are the most prominent thing, and clearly, I didn't go to your site to look at ads. So make sure your content does the talking, and they are the first thing the user looks at.
You shouldn't fight spam until spam fights you... until then, you are just discouraging users.
(I personally don't care for share links so take my impressions on them lightly)
The first thing that stuck out to me is that the rollover on the share button is annoying. Make it onclick.
also, a much smaller point: consider putting in ads later when traffic makes it legitimate to put an ad in. for now the zoosk ad that I see does not match in the spirit of the type of content you probably are trying to bring in.
You have what looks like the back-tick character sitting below your google ad box on every page.
I would change your screen name to something else, like SiteAdministrator. Creator is a little too Old Testament. :)
I submitted this several hours ago: http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1189162
I like your site, how have you been attracting users?
The only one of these that's really good is mylifeisaverage
Not to say that competition should be a hindrance, but I think its worth looking at these when comparing.
Also, somewhat tangential, FYML is in urbandictionary with the Y standing for "Yeah" and some usage on twitter in that regard. Nobody has the full domain yet.
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