anytime I imagine those absolutely gigantic proportions of these very violent events, i feel tiny and completely irrelevant in grand scheme of universe. which is exactly how it is :)
On the other hand, on the gigantic proportions of the entire universe, even the largest star or blackhole is tiny in comparison. That makes me feel less insignificant because nothing is really significant on a cosmic scale.
I feel the opposite: I also feel tiny but relevant because in this huge space we are (as far as we know it) the only form of life.
Gosh I relate to your post and the one you are posting your reply to above.
Some days relevant in the grand scheme, some days totally not.
I just want a piece of fairy cake!
And that's just one universe. Just think how many more there might be...