In fact, Stripe loves the chargeback fees, and there's a whole lot of "stuff" that's waiting to be released (and I don't mean as a feature) that will kindly support this.
"Hi joshmn I'd love to hear how we can improve [but we will actually take what you say with a grain of salt because you're not in our club.]"
I might sound bitter, but I'm not; I'm simply appalled. Not because I was burned by Stripe personally. Instead, my clients have, and you probably know someone that has too.
Please for the love of your company/business/project, review transactions carefully. For most things that are just getting started, all it takes is one transaction to really screw things up. For businesses, you have ~3 lives.
Your now-friendly, former-fraudster