Cognitive dissonance is believing that two contradictory theories are most likely true based on the evidence you have. Since the evidence of the truth of one is also evidence for the untruth of the other, it means that when evaluating the evidence for one, you discount a different set of evidence than you do when evaluating the evidence for the other.
This is never rational, and never something that you have to do. It's usually done to avoid conclusions that would force you (according to your own ethics) to give up something that you have, or not take something that you want.
Not sure I agree with that.
The real world is full of mutually exclusive moral problems, like when "do unto others" runs directly into "first do no harm" when deciding to give help to someone whose bad behavior you might be enabling.
"I decided X but these pieces of evidence induce doubt" is not cognitive dissonance. It's capacity for uncertainty.
During an interview one of my answers was: "for me - it sounds shit to live ambitions !"
And the answer was like the old adam and eve thingy: "But shit is a super fertilizer, it gives a filmsy plantlet growth and thriving.
"Because i have seen where you're going with this", i answered, "let me tell you that some people think, you can make every stand - when you only ground it"
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