We are in a bad valley right now. Modding is getting progressively harder - compare the fan made content for BGII vs MASS EFFECT. Local servers to play multiplayer too - we had them back in doom and starcraft, so there is no excuse from excluding them from new doom and starcraft II. Save at anytime is long past gone - everything is checkpoints, or in the case of XCOM - even if allowed not "real".
There was more to PC gaming than 4K PC master race superiority (guilty of being proud member of said race myself).
Back in the day - you played the game, the ways you liked. Right now you play the game, the ways the developers like in the majority of big games - that is the console way.