You are guilty for the same reason you are accusing others for giving her attention.
You don't think she's good enough because of it.
Seriously, the startup world and the Valley is such a male-dominated place. I would imagine it's not easy being a woman in this space.
There are so many blog posts from men who went to the top of Hacker News and some of them from people who have no experience delivering. I also haven't seen any of her posts here for a long time.
I'm not saying we cut her slack but let's hold her to the same standard we do for posts by men here on Hacker News.