Hm yes, a female that is utterly servile and obedient. Perfect.
My comment is on the beauty of the bond between the user and the machine. Do not read anymore into it or give it negative connotations.
I do think that emotional bonds between humans and machines are fundamently unhealthy, but that's got a long history so it's nothing new (e.g. sailors calling their ships "her").
Is this an emotional bond because the OP said "her", or do you sense that for some other reason? Do you say this only in the context of high technology, the 21st century, or does a person talking about their car "She purrs like a kitten"[0] elicit the same response in you?