Its really a toss up between lichess and fics. I wish lichess did not let people chose color for rated games. I also miss xboard...
esc really needs your look. Stephanie flew to close to the sun and lost her king signal. the whole llama farm in at risk. and my radio sig isn;t responding. my puter is going after the everyone valuable to me. Especially the llamas, the farmers, the dogs goats chicken and CATS. The ducks are just sitting in the line of fire.
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I'd suggest checking out FICS (Free Internet Chess Servers) which has been running for about 20 years.