I'll add a warning about not overdoing this, as someone who has previously burned out before I am careful not to trick myself too often.
Edit: at least -> out
I'll add a warning about not overdoing this, as someone who has previously burned out before I am careful not to trick myself too often.
Edit: at least -> out
About the only time I was able to "convince myself" something is a game was when I was going through such a hard time that I was automatically turning everything into silly games as a coping mechanism. For better or worse, I'm unable to do that anymore.
Anway, competition is normal in the working world (at least in America). So there's a problem regardless of school effects.
Sooner or later they need to work together anyway.
I'd rather suggest being honest about the fact that statistically speaking boys and girls are different and both have to respect each other.
Similar 'good' numbers for both, much worse 'bad' numbers for boys.
This mindset seems harmful to me as I see it playing out with my kids "teacher X set this homework and will tell me off if I don't do it" rather than "teacher X set this homework and I'll not understand the subject as well if I don't do it". The kids think the homework is "for the teacher" rather than for them.
Education is supposed to be an opportunity not a sentence or conflict, isn't it?
Unfortunately, this mindset continues far longer than it should. Highschool students, unlike their elementary counterparts, are more than capable of understanding what education is, but still continue to view it as something forced upon them, rather than for their benefit. I've seen more than a few college students with this mindset as well. The cheer that goes up when the college gives them a day off is a bit disheartening.
It's not about what education is or is not, it's that the male brain, for whatever reason, is highly motivated by competition.