Ask HN: Is getting into a top ~5 CS PhD program possible in mid-30s?
Rather than fight human nature (trust me, I'm smarter than most pedigreed people; it's just exhausting and socially challenging to prove it) it seems like pedigree might be one variable that I can actually change: go back to grad school.
Unfortunately, I don't think I can justify the opportunity cost unless it's one of the top few programs. It needs to be career-making to justify 4-6 years of effort plus opportunity cost.
Is this even possible, though? Honestly, I know how competitive it is, and while my undergraduate grades are fine and I could nail the GRE again, I doubt I can pass admissions.
I'm old. I've worked in software for 10 years, had Director-level positions, and make over $200k per year (even though I'm miserable) but industry experience isn't valued in academia, and I haven't written a line of LaTeX since the mid-2000s. When it comes to recent research experience (as in published papers, not corp. R&D) I have zero. It seems like I'd need to hook up with someone in an AI lab and moonlight, pro bono, for that person for ~7 months in exchange for a game-changing recommendation. I have no idea if that's feasible.
Also, how do people who go to grad school as adults line up the consulting work? Realistically, I need 400-500 hours per year (at ~150/h). I'd still be taking a huge pay cut, but I can live on that. (I can't live on a stipend alone. I have expensive health problems and live in the US.) I can easily afford 10 hours per week on consulting, in addition to graduate school. I just can't afford wasting more time going out and getting the gigs. This is yet another reason why it's essential that it be a top department.
Is what I'm discussing (getting into top CS department, getting enough consulting income to live reasonably) feasible, or am I just too old?