The real reasons you procrastinate – and how to stop
washingtonpost.com
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- Forgive yourself for procrastinating b/c procrastination is linked to negative feelings
- recognize you don't have to be in a good mood to do a certain task, just ignore how you feel and get started
But I agree that is not very useful. However I think the answer lies in a section earlier in the article:
"Pychyl discusses the idea of the "monkey mind" — that our thoughts are constantly darting all over the place, preventing us from concentrating. And psychologists agree that the problem with procrastinators is that they are tempted to give in to instant gratification, which brings people the kind of instant relief psychologists call "hedonic pleasure," rather than staying focused on the long-term goal."
This is important! There are concrete methods that have been proven to rewire your brain to lengthen your focus and concentration. One is long distance running. The other is mindful meditation. If you suffer from procrastination, try them, it will make a difference in your ability to concentrate, and thereby allow you to make better long-term decisions.
Not being condescending (intentionally at least) but I also meditate and some weeks it feels like I make no progress whatsoever with my mind all over the place and others a little bit of effort to still the mind before the meditation seems to really help in improving my meditations as a whole. More the former than the latter though, but I could easily see myself falling into a habit of meditating for years by rote without progressing or improving my focus.
My general equanimity has definitely increased throughout the years, but I can't say meditation has decreased my procrastination (it has increased my general acceptance of procrastination, though).